The X. D. Experience Radio Show!

by X. D. 02.08.2012

  The time has finally come for me to move into new media: radio! I’ve teamed up with HipHopIs4Lovers.com to come to you every Thursday at 9pm to discuss love, intimacy, music…just about everything! Can’t catch it on Thursday? You’ll be able to find each show on this site, and it will be available on [...]

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Weight Loss Update #3: Welp!

by X. D. 02.01.2012

So we’re about 13 weeks since I started this weight loss journey. It’s been an uphill battle that I almost didn’t win. During the holiday season, I went back home to California to visit my mother and family. I hadn’t been to visit in over 2 years, so you know my mother and grandmother had [...]

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RonaldMatters.com Presents: RuPaul’s Drag Race Giveaway!

by X. D. 01.30.2012

My good friends over at RonaldMatters.com are giving away SEASON PASSES of this season’s RuPaul’s Drag Race on LOGO. GETCHU A PIECE! RuPaul’s Drag Race is back – starting Monday, January 30th on LOGO – and RonaldMatters.com wants you to have all the episodes to watch whenever you want. Think of it of as having the season on [...]

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Ho Sh*t Mondays: Vagina Tastes Like Dasani

by X. D. 01.30.2012

Today’s post is interesting. Thank you to guest blogger, Alex! You can find him at @AlNeezy on Twitter. As a young African American man whom began battling with his sexuality since the age of 12, I have encountered countless subtle and not-so-subtle nuances that change the very direction of my thinking daily. Relationships with women, [...]

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#ForeverAlone – Introducing the FleshliPad

by X. D. 01.26.2012

  This might be the loneliest, genius thing I have ever seen in my life. My cousin, Kid Fury, sent me this gem last night and I needed to share this with you all. If you’re a part of #TeamFAP you have got to get your hands (no pun) on this gadget. The good people [...]

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XD’s Favorite Things: Ixora Botanical Beauty [review]

by X. D. 01.20.2012

     I love and hate winter. I love the fall and winter fashion. I love the holiday season. I love the food. What I hate the most is the cold and what it does to my skin. During the winter months, I normally look like I break bricks for sport. However, the good people [...]

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KenDahl – If This Pussy Could Talk [video]

by X. D. 01.17.2012

  After I don’t know how many years, queer artist KenDahl finally released a video for one of my favorites ‘If This Pussy…” I found him several years ago and have been a fan ever since. The video was shot here in NYC and looks great. Campy and fun, KenDahl sure knows how to throw [...]

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Menage – A – Boogie: Video + Discussion

by X. D. 01.14.2012

  Thanks to Feminista Jones over at KSF for contributing! Check her site out here! However this leads to a conversation that I’d like to have here. I’m working on a love and relationships site in regards to African Americans who lead alternative lifestyles (no this is does NOT mean just “gay people”), and there [...]

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A Short, Obligatory 2012 New Year’s Post

by X. D. 01.01.2012

I rang in the New Year at work eating a sandwich and listening to Ann Nesby’s “I’m Gettin’ Ready”   I’d simply like to end 2011 and begin 2012 with a simple word: Grateful. Happy New Year, Everyone! Im grateful for this life and you. Let’s make this tour around the sun a great one. [...]

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Weight Loss Update #2

by X. D. 12.16.2011

Since Halloween of this year, I’ve been on Weight Watchers. I followed the plan strictly at first, and then after Thanksgiving I kinda slacked off. Okay, okay. I forgot about the shit, but I kept some of the same principles when it came to my eating. So I came here to tell y’all something…   [...]

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